When thinking about your self-image what comes to mind? If you were a plant or a flower what condition would you be in?

Are you withered, in need of water, wilting on the vine? Or are you vibrant, strong, blossoming, or in full bloom?

Let’s assume you are able to visualize yourself as strong, healthy, and full of colorful flowers. Can you imagine the fragrance of your flowers fully enough to smell the sweet perfume?

Today is a good time to ‘plant’ a vital image.

If you’ve ever noticed yourself feeling inadequate or irrelevant, you might want to also notice if you are making a victim of yourself. Are you prone to finding yourself trying to live up to the achievements of superstars?

Comparing ourselves with high-profilers–those who have made themselves names in the media–is an exercise fraught with failure. By comparing ourselves to those who have made extraordinary progress, when asking ourselves “Have I made progress?” is self-sabotaging to say the least.

Give yourself a break, and compare yourself to your own historical self instead. “How am I doing now, as compared to how I was doing 1,2,3,5, or 10 years ago?” is a much better question.

The disappointment or Saving Grace of being ordinary?
Have you let your losses named you ordinary and hopeless?  We tend to equate being ordinary with failure.  Being ordinary is actually a really good thing.  Look around you for evidence.  All around you there are ordinary people who are doing just fine.  They have not allowed themselves to be defeated or disappointed.
Being “ordinary” is to keep on doing what needs to be done, and create what can be created.  And this ordinary act creates extraordinary people.

Words have power. Be careful what you utter. Our words are the expressive verbalizations of what we’re experiencing within. We speak our thoughts and our thoughts and words can be powerful indeed.

Words have a quality of vibration. Notice your daily vocabulary. Is it fear and lack? Or is it joy and abundance.

It’s doom and gloom everywhere.  So easy to be dragged down by what you see around you, what you hear around you.  Fear and apprehension creeps in.  You let go of your sunny disposition.  And this becomes a downward spiral that feeds off each other and only drags you further down, down.

What has to be different in order for You to feel successful? Have you defined ‘successful’? Ever think about what a difference a definition of success can make?

Let’s imagine a person who’s just making ends meet with $75,000 annual salary in a job that doesn’t excite or inspire. A definition of success might be an annual salary of $200,000. The point is that the definition of success is raising the bar on what we’re currently achieving in a way that may seem overly challenging or never enough. Someone with an annual income of $1M & sets the bar of success at several $Ms. Both may seem ludicruous to the one making $30k annually.

How can we make our definition of success more compatible with getting Immediate results Every day?

How’s life different feeling successful every day?

What will your easily achievable definition of success be for today?

Consider that the current state of life is based on previous thoughts and actions. The future is an entirely different matter. If one wants to continue creating the results that are currently showing up in life, then continue to think the same thoughts and do the same things. Stay focused on the past. 

Usually we use the template of our past to build our future. Often this means that we focus on the trials and difficulties of our past. It is in our best interests to give stronger focus to our successes to build a positive and more successful future.

However, when it comes to visualization the imagination does not know the difference between reality and possibility. It is possible to start from ‘scratch’ and build a future based solely on how we imagine it to be.

The future is an extension of the past. To create a different future, dismiss the past.

What’s psychology got to do with it?
To do with you that is.
Our success is all about our behavior and our behavior is a product of our thinking. Our thinking is a product of our conditioning.  And psychology deals with conditioning.
You are reading this because you want your life to work for you.  You have lots of ideas of how your life should work, but your subconscious throws up all kinds of obstacles preventing you from having the freedom and ease you crave.  Your judgment is often clouded, and your effort is undermined.  These problems cause a tremendous amount of pain.
You can move from pain to joy by seeking help in dealing with your negative conditioning.  That’s where we come in.  We are here to help you get over your obstacles, to get rid of negative conditioning, to create a future that is in-line with who you are and what you want.  Starting today, get your conditioning under control by getting coaching.

Who comes to mind when you notice someone with a successful business that you might like to have?  Who makes the kind of money you would like to make?  Or someone just living the lifestyle that you wish you could live?
Wouldn’t it be great if you could have it too?
What do you think is the reason for their success? You keep trying but you don’t really get there.
Perhaps you end up telling yourself that they’re different from you. And that’s why you can’t have what they have.
You are absolutely right. There IS a difference between you and them–and there is a way you CAN have what they have.
The key to the difference lies in the way you think. We’re not talking about a qualitative difference in brain power or cognitive ability. We’re talking about the way you think about yourself and your abilities. It is all about self-image. The difference is your self-perception.

We just had the winter solstice, which  is the longest night of the year.  From that day on, each night only gets shorter.  Throughout the ages, people have more holidays in the winter than any other seasons.  It is in the dark days when we need to create merriment and hope.