“Getting Unstuck with Guidance from Spirit” Series — Part 1 of 5
Would it be Awesome to minimize internal negative chatter that sounds like self-doubt? Wake up inspired and in action instead of thinking you’ll do something tomorrow? Know you’ll only have to ask and what’s next will start taking shape? Can you imagine feeling like you’re actually building a life on purpose? A life rooted in your deepest desires? A life aligned with your truest values?
How would that make a difference in your life?
So, what’s still getting in the way of you living what you already know?
After decades of learning how to follow guidance, build a self-designed life, and help clients do the same, I’m looking at where people still get stuck.
You have insight. You aren’t living it consistently.
“Focus on what you want, not what’s missing.” I speak these 8 words repeatedly, like I’m a stuck record! It doesn’t mean ignoring real problems. It means to stop giving energy to the problem, so you can build the kind of life you’re actually here to create.
The 12 Pillared framework that’s been crafted for clients over time provides all the tools that I use to build a solid foundation that can hold and sustain the kind of transformation most people requesting services have been asking for. I’ve always been an advocate of the coaching model, which holds clients as healthy, whole and complete, and I’ve always wanted to be an example for what I believe, so I use the tools I share with others, and their results, and mine, demonstrate they work.
I found myself looking for the essence of what distilling down would look like and the 12 Pillars became 5 by first taking the bird’s eye view, sequencing processes and combining them into the structure I now use today, to demonstrate to myself, the why and how that transformation happens.
In other words I went searching for the “must-haves” for living a fulfilling, self-designed life on purpose. I was looking at the tools that help us vividly vision vibrationally, create blame-free emotional accountability, appreciate more deeply, and allow the wise intuitive higher Self, and guidance from Spirit to be incorporated into core identity. Witnessing personal and client results shows me this is what helps us change for the better.
Taking action is the part that’s hard. Having the mindset that’s strong enough to continue playing in the multiverse while turning off the constant drone of the materialist paradigm is hard.
That constant drone, usually someone else telling you the kind of life to want, is mostly internalized by now, a message so old that it arises as self-doubt almost naturally, and listening to it becomes part of the loop.
Most of the time you know what you want, but you doubt your own knowing. You receive guidance, but question it. You feel the next step, but wait for more proof.
You imagine the life you want, and the old voice says: “Is that realistic?” “Who do you think you are?” “What if it doesn’t work?” “What if it’s too late?” “What if people judge me?” “What if I’m making it all up?”
That’s how your beautiful vision, Magnificent You, gets smaller.
I’ve had a lot of time to listen more closely to what people are saying even before they begin the deeper work. I listen to them say, “I’ve already done a lot of personal growth work…I’ve tried meditation…I’ve tried journaling… tried coaching…tried therapy…tried courses, books, retreats, healing work, and spiritual practices.”
Next post: the people who’ve tried everything — and the question that still matters.
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